Falling in love with a man is a natural phenomenon for all women, but being in love with a single man and being in love with a married man are two very different experiences. It is neither wise nor mature to have an affair with a married man knowingly, especially if you exist as an option from the very first day.
Being involved with a married man is like signing up for an intimate, casual relationship that will inevitably lead to emotional disaster. Your logical intelligence, emotional intelligence, and intuition can all be hijacked when you lack clarity about the traits or qualities you desire in a partner, the purpose of the relationship, or a strong sense of self. There are always compelling reasons why someone enters an affair with a married man, but ultimately, nobody is responsible for your conscious decisions except yourself. You need to understand this universal truth: “You always attract who you are, not what you desperately want to attract,” according to the law of attraction. Many women enter casual relationships with married men after experiencing a devastating breakup or divorce, lacking clarity and purpose, or not being the best version of themselves. If you force yourself into a casual relationship to temporarily fill the emptiness left by a breakup or divorce, you are likely to attract someone who will take advantage of your loneliness, fear, insecurities, and emotional vulnerability. In such situations, it is common to attract a pretender, liar, cheater, self-centered, or temporary romantic companion. You may feel intensely connected to a married man because he fulfills your emotional, financial, or physical desires, even though you are only an option to him. You are not compelled to be his “optional mistress” by accident; it is a conscious choice that leads toward inevitable emotional disaster—a truth you often know deep down. When involved in such a relationship, you may convince yourself that he is the man of your dreams and ignore red flags as well as the consequences of your own decisions. Once you are in an affair with a married man, his attention-grabbing statements—like “I should have married someone like you before,” “Why didn’t I meet you first,” “You are far more gorgeous, loving, caring, loyal, and sexy than my wife,” or “I must leave my wife soon to marry you”—can be very convincing. A married man can fulfill his emotional and sexual desires on his terms, leaving you waiting and dependent on his presence. You may ignore your intuition and cross boundaries, trading your self-worth for the hope that he will eventually commit. If you had a toxic past relationship and invested time in healing your wounded self and discovering your best version, you could instead manifest the man of your dreams. Remember, the law of attraction suggests that you will attract an “unfixed” person if you remain unfixed yourself. Red flags, like “If he’s unhappy in his marriage, he should work on it with his wife rather than keeping you as an option,” or “A man who seeks another woman to fix his marriage is not the right man for your future,” are critical signals you must heed. Do not continue a casual relationship with a married man while expecting a miracle to happen. Remember: “If he can cheat on his wife, he can cheat on you.” Uphold your dignity, honesty, and morality. Consider how you would feel if someone took your husband without fault. Leaving a married man allows you to preserve your self-respect and avoid a lifetime of pleading for acknowledgment. Personal Advice to Women in Affairs with Married Men: You are precious, and you deserve a partner who reflects your soul. Remaining an option in a casual relationship will lead not to miracles but to emotional disaster. Prolonging such a relationship clouds your ability to see your core strengths, purpose, and true worth. The more time and energy you invest in this type of relationship, the more mental and emotional stress you attract. By staying, you have already signed up to fulfill someone else’s emotional and sexual desires at the cost of your self-identity. Detach yourself completely to heal and rediscover your best self. Detachment includes: no personal contact, discarding gifts, erasing numbers, removing him from social media, and deleting all shared pictures. During the healing process, practice the law of attraction consciously to rebuild yourself faster. Seek professional help from relationship counselors if needed. Remember, you were born to be someone’s priority, not an option. Once you heal and become your best self, you can attract the partner you deserve. Never waste your precious life on someone who is married and playing with two lives for selfish motives. A relationship without purpose invites emotional disaster. You cannot manifest your deserving partner while continuing a relationship with a married man. This situation creates blockages to attracting your soulmate. Casual relationships with married men can poison key areas of your life if prolonged. Learn from these experiences, detach, and focus on manifesting the life and love you deserve. Techniques to heal and rediscover yourself include:
Note: This article is written for women in affairs with married men, but the same principles apply to men who are involved with married women.
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