Having an affair with a married man is an intentional invitation to experience an emotional disaster.
You are an emotional love seeking being in human experience and it's your birthrights as well as it's your divine right to experience a destined version of marriage or love relationship with a man of your dreams. Marriage or love relationship is a very confidential matter of concern where you have to be consciously aware and wise enough to work on a relationship with your deserving person who can reflect your soul.
Actually falling in love with a man is a natural phenomenon for all women but being in love with a single man and being in love with a married man is a two different story. It is not a wise and mature decision to have an affair with a married man knowingly where you exist as an option from the very first day.
It is simply like you have signed up an intimate casual relationship that can only give you an emotional disaster sooner or later. Your logical intelligence, emotional intelligence, and intuitive intelligence get hijacked when you have no clarity regarding the traits or qualities you desire to have in a specific person, lack the purpose of the relationship, and lack your self-identity. There are always some compelling valid reasons for being in an affair with a married man and nobody is responsible for your conscious decisions except yourself. You need to understand the Universal fact which is "You always attract for who you are rather than what you desperately want to attract as per the law of attraction".
The majority of the women jump into a casual relationship with a married man either after experiencing a devastating breakup/divorce or lacks clarity and purpose of a relationship or for not being the best version of themselves. When you force yourself to jump in a casual relationship instantly for a temporary adjustment of your emotional emptiness without healing your wounded self after breakup/divorce then you will definitely attract a person who can take advantage of your loneliness, weakness, fear, insecurities and emotional emptiness. It is obvious to attract a pretender, liar, cheater, self-centered and temporary romantic companion if you are looking for a temporary adjustment of your emotional emptiness after breakup/divorce or if you haven't discovered the best version of yourself.
You might feel so intensely connected with a married man because he is fulfilling your emotional desire, financial desire, and a physical desire in need even though you are an option to him. You are not compelled to be an optional mistress of a married man by an accident rather it is your own conscious choice which is leading you towards the path of an intense level of emotional disaster and you knew it from the core of your being. When you are having an affair with a married man then you start to feel like you are with a man of your dream and you ignore all the red flags as well as all the consequences of your own immature decisions.
Once you are in an affair with a married man then you get more attracted and convinced by their attention-grabbing statements like "I should have married someone like you before", "Why didn't I met you first", "You are far more gorgeous, loving, caring, loyal and sexier than my wife", "I must leave my wife soon so that I can marry you", "I am not happy in my marriage relationship and I want to leave my wife as soon as possible" and many more lies. A married man can fulfill their emotional desire and sexual desire being with you whenever he needs and you are like a spectator who always waits for his presence or availability. You keep ignoring your intuition and start crossing all the limitations or boundaries or trading your precious life because he keeps convincing you that he will leave his wife soon for you.
Suppose if you had a toxic relationship in the past and if you invest your quality time to heal your wounded self first and discover the best version of yourself instead of being with a married man for so long then you will definitely manifest a man of your dream. You need to understand the fact that you always attract an unfixed person if you are unfixed yourself as per the law of attraction. You can get the life-altering clues from the red flags like "If he is not happy in his marriage relationship then he should work on it together with his wife to fix it rather than keeping you as an option and giving you false hope for marrying you" and "A man who looks for another woman to fix their marriage relationship is definitely not the right man for your future marriage relationship".
You should not continue your casual relationship with a married man for so long and expecting a miracle to happen in your relationship life. You have to believe in the fact which says "If he can cheat on his wife then he can cheat on you for sure". You must have your dignity, honesty, and morality in such a case scenario, instead of being self-centered. If you analyze your case scenario being honest and if you place your self in his wife's situation then how you gonna feel if another woman takes away your husband without your personal fault. It's better to leave a married man so that you don't have to beg, plead, and fight for your existence in their life for a lifetime.
My Personal Advice To All Women Who Are In An Affair With A Married man.
You are the most precious person in your life and you deserve a person who can reflect your soul. When you force yourself to remain as an option and expect a miracle to happen for so long in such a casual type of intimate relationship then instead of experiencing a miracle, you have to experience another emotional disaster in your life sooner or later. When you continue your relationship with a married man for so long then you will not be in a perfect situation to see your core strengths, standard, greatness, and the purpose of your relationship because you get clouded by emotional emptiness. When you invest your more time and energy in such kind of casual relationship then you will attract more mental stress, emotional stress, and unexpected consequences into your physical experience.
You've already signed up a relationship where you are out of his equation and you are simply an option for fulfilling his emotional and sexual desire as per his terms and conditions. You must detach yourself instantly from such an intimate kind of casual relationship or else you will be experiencing an intense level of emotional disaster and you will lose your self-identity completely. Actually, you will have no trust in the term love and committed relationship anymore once you experience another devastating experience being with a married man for so long. You must detach yourself from such a casual relationship completely in every way possible to heal your wounded self and discover the best version of yourself. In fact, detaching means not contacting him personally, throwing out all the material gifts, erasing his numbers, erasing him from all the social media platforms, and erasing all the pictures you have together.
When you practice the law of attraction during the healing process with such awareness and insights then you can heal your wounded self faster with ease. You must take professional help from relevant relationship counselors for fixing your internal issues being responsible. You are born to be a priority of someone you love, not an option of a person who is already married to someone else. You can be a living magnet to attract your deserving person once you heal your wounded self and discover the best version of yourself. Never waste your precious life for a person who is already married and playing with two lives at once for his self-centered motives which are normally a sexual and emotional desire.
A relationship without purpose is simply an intentional invitation for experiencing another emotional disaster. You can’t manifest your deserving person if you continue your relationship with a man who is already married to someone else. It is simply like you are creating your own blockage for manifesting your deserving life partner or soulmate. When you engage in such a casual intimate type of relationship with a married man for so long then it can poison your all key areas of life sooner or later. You need to learn some valuable lessons from such a casual relationship experience and leave instantly which can help to script your destined version of relationship life.
There are certain techniques to heal your wounded self and discover your self-identity. You must meditate, practice visualization and positive affirmation to program your subconscious mind which is negatively conditioned due to an emotional disaster, go for a vacation trip, focus on your dream goals, spend quality time being with your best friends and loved ones, focus on your physical health, hear positive audiobooks, wear new clothes you like, eat your favorite food you like, do what makes you happy, enjoy your own company, treat yourself with love, respect and be grateful for who you are, detach yourself from all negative toxic people and join any course for your personal, professional and spiritual growth.
You will never compromise your precious life being as an option with a married man once you get back your self-worth, self-identity, and your feminine power. There is always someone in the Universe who is looking for a person exactly like you. As you exist in the pool of over 7 billion people and you just deserve one soul who can reflect your soul. You just need to be the person you desire to attract for a marriage relationship. You will definitely attract your deserving person to your vortex by practicing the law of attraction with the right level of awareness regarding the working mechanism of it.
Note: This article is focused on a woman having an affair with a married man but if you are a man then you can read "Married man" as a "Married woman" because this case scenario applies to both men and women.