The law of attraction is not the law of magic rather it is an action-based law where you have to be the person you desire to manifest during the manifestation process. In fact, everything is energy and you always attract who you are when it comes to manifesting your ideal partner.
The universe is always responding to your thought vibration without any rectification of the vibes you emit towards it. You have to expand your awareness regarding the working mechanism of the law of attraction because it is a life-altering approach for manifesting your ideal partner. Your clear intent and persistent inspired action can help you to manifest your deserving person even though you are unaware of whom to manifest yet.
It doesn’t matter whether you have been waiting for several years and never been in a relationship or you have experienced a series of breakups or divorce—all that matters is having a strong, clear intent to attract your ideal partner. There is always one specific person in the universe who is looking for a person exactly like you for a committed relationship. You will definitely manifest your ideal partner or soulmate once you practice these presented action-oriented approaches being committed and disciplined during the manifestation process. I strongly believe in the action-oriented approach because the last 6 letters of "ATTRACTION" itself says "ACTION".
These are 15 action steps that should be followed during the manifestation process to attract your ideal partner or soulmate:
1. Have a self-diagnosis of your mental and emotional state of well being first.
You need to have a self-diagnosis of your mental and emotional well being so that you can know whether you are mentally and emotionally ready for working on manifesting your ideal partner or not. Never work on your new relationship if you are going through emotionally devastating experiences rather work on yourself to heal your emotional wound immediately instead of being the victim of it. You can't manifest your ideal partner or soulmate if you live your life with your past emotional baggage rather you will attract more emotional disaster in your life if you allow yourself to get controlled by it.
You are the responsible person to heal your emotional wound and discover the best version of yourself. When you live with the same pattern of your thoughts, emotions, and actions on a daily basis then you will attract alike without any rectification of it as per the law of attraction. The majority of people are living their life with regrets, shame, fear, or emotional scars of their past relationship and that is creating a huge blockage for manifesting a destined version of their life partner or life as a whole.
You need to understand the life-altering fact that says "experiencing an emotional disaster in your past relationship is a part of your life, not the end of it".Your quality of relationship life or life as a whole is determined by the quality of your thoughts, emotions, decisions, and actions you experience in your present moment.
Actually, emotional healing and letting go of your past relationship issues is simply an inner work where you need to harmonize your thoughts, emotions, and actions through spiritual and the law of attraction techniques. You are divinely equipped with an infinite source of healing energy that exists within you and you can let go of your past relationship baggage with ease and move on peacefully once you utilize your divine gifts.
You might be subconsciously conditioned with the negative patterns of your thoughts, emotions, decisions, and actions which requires some right level of awareness and disciplined actions to alter them in a positive manner. You might feel confused, stuck, lonely, and lost in your life because the negative pattern of your life forms a negative belief system that controls your thought, emotion, decision, and action completely. You can refer to this article if you are mentally and emotionally occupied by your past relationship issues 16 action steps to heal your wounded self and let go of your ex after a breakup.
2. Be specific about the traits or qualities you desire to manifest in your ideal partner and ideal relationship.
The universe is a vast creation that works on a frequency level, and you are a living magnet in human experience. When you have the clarity regarding what you truly desire to manifest in your ideal partner and ideal relationship, the universe will respond alike to your desire without any rectification of it. You must write down on a piece of paper about the qualities or traits you would like to see in your ideal partner and the specific kind of relationship you desire to experience. There is always someone in the universe who is meant to be yours, and you just need to ask the universe intelligence for their physical manifestation with a strong self-belief. In fact, clarity gives your dream desires more positive power to attract them into your physical reality despite the countless setbacks during the manifestation process.
Never limit yourself while expressing your relationship goals and feel like the universe is asking you to script your desires list as per your terms and conditions. Never allow your negative self or fear to stop you from expressing your relationship goals; rather express yourself fearlessly. If you desire to attract a person who is loyal, honest, loving, caring, financially stable, and has a high level of understanding, then write it down without any hesitation. You need to write the traits or qualities that can't be tolerated or compromised in your relationship life rather than writing the traits at a very micro level. You must be very specific regarding the kind of relationship you desire to attract—just be specific. Your clarity combined with focus and disciplined inspired action can help you to attract your deserving person who can reflect your soul.
There will be no physical manifestation of your ideal partner and vibrant relationship if you lack clarity about that specific person and the kind of relationship you desire to experience. Your emotional intelligence and intuitive intelligence will guide you in a positive manner once you have a positive harmony in your head, hand, and daily action. Clarity gives you more focus and positive strength to attract your specific dream ideal person who is not in your awareness yet. There are more than seven billion people on this planet, and your deserving person is looking for you, too.
3. Create a vision board that reflects your relationship goals.
The vision board is a physical representation of your relationship goal that you strongly desire to manifest into your physical experience. You can mentally and emotionally remain focused on your relationship goals because of your vision board during the manifestation process. In fact, a vision board is the most powerful technique to program your subconscious mind through images, positive words, and positive statements that are relevant to your relationship goal. This technique helps to connect with the Universe intelligence and it is the reflection of what you truly desire to manifest in your ideal partner and in your specific kind of relationship. You can manifest your dream ideal partner much faster if you practice the law of attraction by using the vision board approach being disciplined.
Action Steps To Create A Vision Board.
You have to gather 1 piece of chart paper, a few relevant pictures, 1 piece of the wedding card, and 1 wedding ring (not expensive) to create your vision board. You have to snap your smiley picture and print it out in a color version. You have to include a picture of a couple’s hands with their wedding rings on them, but don’t include a picture of a couple with their faces or whole body since you are not aware of whom to manifest yet. You can buy a wedding anniversary card and a wedding ring ($1 or $2) to put on your vision board. You can put a picture of the country or any specific place you would like to go for your honeymoon. You can gather images relevant to your relationship goals from magazines, or you can Google them and print them out in color versions.
Note:- Put the picture of the couple's hands with the wedding ring on it at the center and place your picture on the right side of it. After placing them correctly, you have to put that physical wedding ring in between them. You can make your vision board more creative and eye-catchy way by using colored pictures relevant to your relationship goals. Finally, write all the positive traits or qualities you desire to manifest all around the pictures.
You must write positive statements relevant to your relationship goals for your vision board in the present tense. You have to write all the traits or qualities you desire to experience in your ideal person and the ideal type of your relationship being honest. Every positive statement should be very specific, compelling, and relevant to your relationship goal.
Never use any negative words or statements like “I can’t” or “I don’t”; rather, use only positive words because your subconscious mind never differentiates between positive and negative. Most people are attracting more negative people in their lives because they use affirmative statements like “I don’t desire to attract an abusive person” and “I don’t want to attract an alcoholic person.”
Here are some examples of traits or qualities in a present tense format for a vision board. You have to keep in mind that “General positive traits" can be compromised but “Core positive traits” can’t be tolerated or compromised. (These traits are scripted for a vision board as an example for women)
-My husband and I have a very peaceful, unified, and intimate marriage.
-My husband is successful and is passionate about everything he pursues. He is a go-getter.
- My husband is smart and bold in his actions and endeavors. He is a leader.
-My husband is financially literate and fiscally disciplined. He is able to provide enough to exceed our needs, meet our wants, and create a financially abundant future for us.
-My husband is mature enough to value marriage and me as his companion in life.
-My husband is a disciplined, responsible, ambitious, supportive man with only positive habits.
- My husband is a virtuous man whom I admire deeply.
-My husband and I are loyal to each other and trust each other from the core of our being.
-We respect, appreciate, and complement each other's differences.
-My husband and I are thankful that we were blessed to be united in marriage and life.
-My husband is a thoughtful, romantic, affectionate person and we have a strong physical attraction and emotional bond.
-My husband is traditional and takes initiative to care for and protect me as his wife.
-My husband and I share the same social, moral, political, and lifestyle values. We are able to effectively manage cultural differences.
-My husband is open to spirituality.
-My husband and I are able to engage in honest, constructive communication.
-My husband and I love to explore and live a healthy and active lifestyle. We enjoy doing activities together.
-My husband stays healthy, muscular, and rugged.
-My husband has a gorgeous smile. He smiles easily and often.
- My husband and I like each other's friends and family and feel comfortable spending time with them.
-My husband is respected and admired by family, friends, and colleagues. He is a role model.
-My husband and I are both self-sufficient and independent, but we seek out and enjoy opportunities to work together and make our dreams come true.
-My husband and I love to be surrounded by beautiful things in our home, our environment, and our travels.
-My husband and I would be thrilled to have children together.
-My husband is generous and gentle towards me. He is a very compassionate soul.
- My husband is slow to anger and moderate with his speech.
-My husband is proud to have me as his wife.
Your subconscious mind accepts your command as per your instructions whether you command it through positive or negative affirmative statements or through relevant or irrelevant images. Once you are done creating your vision board, you must put your vision board in a visible location where you can see it most of the time (bedroom or side of your big mirror). You can snap a picture of your vision board so that you can keep it on your cell phone or laptop.
You can print it out for keeping it in your wallet or purse. You can also stick your printed vision board on your refrigerator or any wall of your house or apartment where you can see it most of the time. When you have a strong intent to manifest your relationship goals, you must keep yourself on track, which is done by your vision board technique.
4. Program your subconscious mind through visualization and positive affirmations.
Once you create your relationship related vision board for manifesting your ideal partner then you need to practice it in your actions, being disciplined. The visualization and positive affirmation techniques are the best approaches to program your subconscious mind. Once you program your subconscious mind through visualization and positive affirmation techniques then your subconscious mind will connect with the Universe intelligence for manifesting your ideal partner or soulmate into your physical experience.
The visualization is a miracle creating technique to utilize the power of your imagination to manifest your relationship goals into your physical experience. You have to visualize whatever you have scripted on your vision board in a manifested form. When you see your ideal partner with your mind’s eye and visualize being in a committed relationship in a manifested form, it can make you more magnetic to gravitate that specific person to your vortex. You must visualize like you are already living a vibrant relationship life together, going shopping together, eating together, going on vacations together, sleeping together romantically, and so on.
You just need to experience your dream relationship life in a manifested form in an advance in your mental movie repeatedly and vividly. You must practice the "fake it till you manifest it into your physical experience" principle then you can manifest your specific person sooner or later. You can practice visualization on a regular basis for at least three to five times a day. You can practice visualization with open eyes and by being in a meditative state too. The more powerful way to visualize your relationship goal is through a meditative state which can help to access your soul energy and connect with the Universe intelligence.
You can spend some quality time alone being with nature and practice this visualization approach. Actually, nature itself is the greatest source of positive energy and you can connect with the Universe intelligence through this spiritual approach as well. You just need to observe nature as it is and visualize your relationship goals in a manifested form without being judgmental to objects or people around you.
The best times would be when you wake up in the morning and before you go to sleep at night. You can also visualize two or three times more whenever you feel positive about manifesting your ideal partner. The more repeatedly and vividly you visualize your relationship goal by internalizing it emotionally, the faster you can actualize it into your physical experience.
You can create an audio version of your vision board too so that you can hear it while you are driving as well (listen to it at a low volume). Since you don’t know your specific person yet, you can create an audio version of a vision board. You can record your spoken statements for more convincing and authentic visualization practice.
This vision board technique is a very action-oriented approach that can be very effective while practicing the law of attraction for manifesting your ideal partner into your physical experience. A vision board technique is part of your manifestation process and there is a more action-oriented approach which is the root of the law of attraction for manifesting your specific ideal partner.
Positive Affirmation technique:-
You can gain mastery over your self-limiting beliefs if you keep practicing positive affirmations with strong conviction and confidence and internalize it emotionally. It can also help to raise your self-worth, self-confidence and your perception regarding yourself will change in a positive manner. Never allow your negative self-limiting beliefs or your negative self to distract you; rather, ignore them while practicing positive affirmations.
You can use a mirror technique or you can practice by being in a quiet location for at least three to five times a day. The best time for practicing positive affirmations would be before you sleep at night and when you wake up in the morning. You can also practice it three times more during the day whenever you feel free and focused on your relationship goals.
Examples of Positive Affirmative Statements. (These Positive affirmations are for women as an example)
- I am living a happy and self-fulfilled life.
I am a very gorgeous and attractive woman.
- Everyone loves and appreciates my attitude and behavior.
-I am an intuitively guided soul and I trust my intuition all the time.
- I love myself unconditionally and accept myself for who I am being.
- I am a goal-driven person with huge dream goals.
- The Universe is in my favor & I am experiencing a huge positive shift in all areas of my life.
-I am a woman with a higher level of self-esteem and self-worth.
- I am a very confident, courageous, and compassionate soul.
- I am learning, growing, and discovering the best version of myself every day.
If your negative self-limiting beliefs start to create an inner dialogue then ignore them and feel every word and statement in a manifested form. You have to internalize and emotionalize every word and statement in a manifested form to program your subconscious mind. Once you practice the positive affirmation technique on a daily basis, being very disciplined, then you can be in a higher state of positive vibration. Your subconscious mind is like a magnetic field that can help you to connect with the universe intelligence for attracting your specific ideal person to your vortex.
5. Love, accept, and appreciate yourself for who you are being.
The law of attraction works for attracting your ideal partner once you become a person you desire to manifest into your physical reality. Once you desire to manifest a person of love, respect, appreciation, loyalty, trust, and compassion, then own these qualities first. Never criticize, humiliate, or hurt yourself; rather, treat yourself like the most precious person in your life—then you can send the positive vibes to the Universe intelligence to attract alike. When you treat yourself with love, respect, and appreciation, you can be filled with more positive energy.
When you treat yourself in a positive way, being your authentic self and grateful, you can attract your ideal partner faster. Your personal well-being does matter in raising your higher level of positive vibes. Be grateful for all the qualities or traits you have, then you can be more magnetic as per the law of attraction. The law of attraction is not about rectifying your thought vibes. Whether you radiate positive vibes or negative vibes, the universe always responds alike to your vibes. You must radiate the positive vibes to attract a person with similar positive vibes to your vortex.
6. Meditate, go for a walk, do exercises, and do what makes you happy every day.
Meditation is the best spiritual technique for gaining mastery over your distractive negative thoughts and negative memories. It releases negative energy and helps you to connect with your spiritual self, which is your real self. In fact, this spiritual practice brings benefits that provide positive energy for attracting your deserving specific person into your life. You can practice any technique that works for you and I am presenting a breathing technique that I recommend to my coaching clients.
There are various techniques for practicing meditation and I have been practicing Focused Meditation (Breathing Technique). Actually, you don't need to be a meditation expert to practice meditation in your day-to-day life rather it is experientially learned. The breathing technique is one of the easiest techniques I have been practicing and recommending to my clients. Most people have misunderstandings and misconceptions regarding the working mechanism of meditation but once you understand its working mechanism then you can practice it easily. You just need to have comfortable clothing, a peaceful location and you need to have a comfortable meditative posture. The best time to practice meditation would be in your morning time and before you sleep for 20 minutes every day in each session.
You just need to fold your legs, make your spine straight, head up, and close your eyes without stressing your forehead region. When you are in a complete meditative posture then focus your attention on your inhalation and exhalation of breath. While inhaling and exhaling your breath use one mantra "So Ham"-(DR Chopra Mantra). The mantra or numbers is used to focus your attention on your breath without being judgmental. During the meditation period, your thoughts, emotions, body sensations and external environment may distract you a lot which can be minimized through focusing on your breathing. If you keep focusing on your breath despite countless distractions then you can reach the state of the thoughtless state.
You can connect with your spiritual self in the thoughtless state of awareness and your spiritual self is your real self. You can experience true inner joy and inner peace through such spiritual practice on the highway of your life. Finally, you can be a more intuitively driven person with a higher level of intelligence, creativity, and love once you practice meditation on a daily basis. Meditation practice gives more power to the law of attraction and you have to practice it on a daily basis being disciplined.
Once you finish meditation in the morning, you can go for a morning walk in places like a park, a beach, and naturally blessed locations, which can help you to maximize your positive energy. You can do a physical exercise like going to the gym or doing yoga for your quality health transformation.
Your physical shape and appearance will transform dramatically and you will feel more confident when you engage in physical activities. The law of attraction says you attract your deserving person by becoming an attractive human being. So be the person you want to attract in every way possible during the manifestation process. You must do what makes you happy most of the time, which can help you to radiate positive vibes to the universe intelligence for attracting more happiness into your life.
Your personal well-being and state of happiness can make you a living magnet to attract your specific deserving partner into your physical experience. Happiness is the source of a huge amount of positive energy, and you must be happy all the time during the manifestation phase.
7. Focus on positive growth-based activities.
You can attract your ideal partner once you discover the best version of yourself. You can raise your self-esteem, self-worth, and discover your self-identity once you engage in positive development-based activities. You have to be the person you desire to attract into your physical reality.
When you get engaged with positive growth-based activities, it can help you to radiate a higher level of positive vibration. The reason that most people are unable to manifest their ideal partner is that they desire to attract a highly professional, loving, honest, healthy, religious belief or spiritual and financially stable person without being one first. You can refer to positive, motivational, or spiritual books for your positive mental nutrition which can help to transform your professional life to a higher dimension.
You must do what makes you feel happy and be focused on your positive life transformation. If you are a religious person, then you can attend church, temple, mosque, hof, monastery, etc. as per your religious beliefs and faith. The law of attraction is all about being the person you desire to attract.
Your mind will be occupied with more positive thoughts, ideas, and creativity once you engage yourself in positive growth-based activities on a regular basis. Once you have positive harmony among your personal, professional, health, and spiritual life, you can be more magnetic and attract your specific person faster.
8. Express gratitude every day, making a gratitude list.
The attitude of gratitude can help you to connect with the universe intelligence and attract more of what you radiate. When you express your gratitude regarding who you are, what you have, and what you do every day with a positive mindset, you can be a living magnet. If you desire to attract positive circumstances, positive things, and positive people into your life, never allow negative thoughts to occupy your mind.
It would be perfect if you made a gratitude list every night before you go to sleep. The universe intelligence will respond to your positive vibes without any rectification of it. This grateful attitude will help you to become more positive about life and you can manifest your ideal person faster.
9. Associate with only like-minded, positive people.
When you work to manifest your ideal partner, surround yourself with only positive, like-minded people. Never allow any negative people to poison your life; rather, detach yourself from toxic people instantly. Negative people hold a huge amount of negative energy and they can create a huge blockage during the manifestation process.
You must associate with only positive people who can make you feel more positive. Positive people are the ones who want to see you happy and will encourage you to become the best version of yourself. Being with positive people can help you to become more creative, positive, and goal-oriented. You have to be professional rather than being emotional while allowing people into your life.
10. Internalize and emotionalize your relationship goals, being focused.
Your thought, emotion, and action should be in positive harmony while you practice the law of attraction for manifesting your ideal partner. Never allow your negative past experiences or negative thoughts to have mastery over you; rather, you must have mastery over them to radiate positive vibes. The law of attraction will never rectify your thought vibes, and you have to be in a positive state of mind to radiate positive vibes of your dream desires.
When you internalize and emotionalize your dream desires from deep within, you can be magnetic enough to attract your ideal partner with ease. Never get hijacked by your negative self-limiting beliefs during the manifestation process. You just need to plant the feeling of deservingness to raise your higher level of positive frequency.
11. Practice ‘Fake it till you make it believing that you can manifest it into your physical reality’ approach.
You can manifest your ideal partner faster once you feel like you have already manifested them into your physical experience in advance as per the law of attraction. You need to feel like you are already living in a happy and vibrant relationship life together. When you feel like you have already manifested your ideal partner, the universe intelligence will respond to your desires faster. You need to believe in yourself and trust in the manifestation process to attract your ideal partner faster into your physical reality.
Never allow your negative self to lead you; rather, lead it by using this powerful technique called “fake it till you make it believing that you can manifest it into your physical reality.” You need to express your ideal relationship through your emotions and inspired actions in a positive way in your day-to-day life. This technique will shift your positive vibrational energy to a higher level, which can help to attract your ideal partner faster into your physical experience.
Action steps with examples:
Leave a space for your partner while sleeping in your bed; feel like you are sleeping together and looking at each other being romantic. Buy a marriage anniversary card and birthday card to greet your ideal partner. Put the cards in an envelope and place it on your vision board. Write “marriage anniversary and birthday” on the envelope.
Remove all the objects or gifts or pictures relevant to the past relationships that make you feel negative. If you keep these things around you then it radiates negative energy and it will occupy you mentally and emotionally all the time regarding your past relationship experiences. It will keep refreshing your past memories all the time and it can create a huge blockage in your manifestation process.
You should return them to your Ex or donate or hide them in a place that can't be seen by your eyesight physically on a daily basis. Whether it's a laptop, furniture, books, perfumes, clothes, flowers, or even a diamond ring gifted by your Ex.
Make a schedule for taking a vacation together, going to a shopping mall, going to a restaurant, and going to a place of worship. You can present everything on your vision board. This technique will help to attract your ideal partner faster into your physical experience. You must live it to attract it into your physical experience.
12. Take inspired actions being open and receptive to the Universe intelligence.
This is the most crucial and miracle-creating action step for attracting your ideal partner whom you don’t know yet into your physical experience faster. The law of attraction is not the law of magic; rather, it is the law of action and just an action where you should take inspired actions for manifesting your deserving partner. The term attraction includes the word action, which means you need to take action to attract your ideal partner.
You can’t manifest your ideal partner faster if you keep staying at home behind a closed door with the same old pattern of your life. You need to expose yourself to the universe, being open and receptive during the manifestation process. When you expose yourself to the external world, you can create huge opportunities to acquaint yourself with your dream ideal partner faster.
Most people expect their ideal partner to knock on their door and ask, “Will you marry me?” which doesn’t work in real life, according to the law of attraction. You must launch yourself among the pool of people where you can identify your deserving person through their positive vibes. You may encounter countless people during the manifestation process, but you have to follow your emotional intelligence and intuitive intelligence to identify your deserving person.
There are a few action steps that will help to encounter your deserving person:-
a. Engage in social gatherings.
There are several ways to launch yourself among the pool of people. You can host your own birthday celebration and invite your friends or you can attend your friends birthday or relatives birthday party or wedding party. You can encounter countless people who have similar positive vibes when you attend any seminar or live concert or dance party or any event that you like. When you participate in such live events, you must be very open and receptive. You must wear your favorite eye-catching dress and your favorite perfume while hosting or attending such social gatherings. Don’t force yourself to interact with everyone you see at such social gatherings, being desperate; rather, follow your intuition and talk with the people with whom you feel connected vibrationally.
You must be in an attractive getup but not a revealing one. You must wear your favorite dress or suit and feel confident about yourself for who you are. You must radiate a smile with confidence, which can help you to radiate positive vibes. Greet others whom you find positive, being humble and polite. The positive spark of your traits can be reflected through the positive vibes you emit. There is always someone in such gatherings who can cause a reaction inside you with their positive vibrational energy.
Be consciously aware while interacting with the people you meet at such social gatherings, and don’t act like a desperate person when you find someone who is attractive or is interested in you. Your deserving person can appear in any situation and at any place. Your intuition is the best spiritual guide to choose a positive person with whom you can engage in a friendly conversation during such social gatherings.
There is always someone in such gatherings with whom you can feel connected vibrationally. Once you feel connected with any person in such social gatherings, you can talk in a friendly way and get to know each other without being desperate.
b. Take relevant courses for your personal and professional growth.
When you take relevant courses as per your dream goals, you can create a huge opportunity to interact with countless people who have similar dream goals and similar interests.
Your right person can find you at such places, too, and you need to be very open and receptive. You just need to keep in mind that your deserving person can be encountered at any time and at any place. You must interact with the people with whom you feel intuitively connected. This approach will help you to experience positive growth, too.
c. Make new friends.
When you start to make new friends having similar positive vibes who can reflect your soul, you can encounter your specific ideal partner faster. When you approach any person politely, humbly, and confidently, you can make good friends during the manifestation process with ease. This technique will help to create a huge opportunity to encounter your dream partner, and you need to read them through the vibes they emit.
d. Be active on social media platforms.
You can meet countless people through social media platforms such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and dating sites. You can meet people from all around the world through this approach, but you need to be consciously aware while interacting with them online. You need to utilize your logical intelligence, emotional intelligence, and intuitive intelligence while interacting with them. You can encounter people from your own country or beyond your physical boundaries during the process. The universe is working 24/7, and you might get acquainted with your dream ideal person beyond the physical boundaries, too.
Actually, the majority of people have manifested their dream ideal partner by using social media platforms too. You must take some time to trust people whom you meet online and act like a mature person while interacting with them. You need to focus on quality over quantity while associating with new people online. This approach will help you to manifest your ideal partner once you are consciously aware of your stated relationship goals.
e. Greet people.
Greet friends, relatives, or anyone whom you encounter by being positive, smiley, and confident on a daily basis. When you encounter your colleagues or friends or strangers in person or online, greet them and ask them about their personal well-being. This greeting attitude will help you to radiate positive vibes and reflect your authentic self. In fact, you might encounter your ideal partner through such interactions, too, because everyone loves a positive, smiley, kind, loving, and confident person.
The people whom you greet may show some interest in you sooner or later, but you must follow your intuition before you interact with them in a very descriptive manner. Actually, a friendly talk would be enough in the beginning phase because a friendly talk will lead you to a more engaging talk later. The attitude of loving, caring, and showing your compassion to others can make you an attractive person. You just need to keep in mind that you can attract your ideal partner to your vortex by being an attractive person.
13. Don’t be desperate for attracting your ideal partner during the manifestation process.
The manifestation process takes some time. It doesn’t happen overnight. You need to be in a positive mindset to radiate positive vibes. Don’t be desperate to attract your ideal partner, and never allow your self-doubt to occupy your mind during the manifestation process. You just need to ease yourself by being more positive and patient while practicing this law to attract your ideal partner into your physical experience.
Being desperate is simply a sign of immaturity and a lack of awareness about the working mechanism of the law of attraction. You just need to believe in yourself and trust in the manifestation process of the universe intelligence without being judgmental. When you ease yourself, be patient, and trust the manifestation process, your deserving person with similar positive vibes will come into your physical experience sooner or later. Your attitude of desperateness can detach you from your deserving person and can invite an emotional disaster into your physical experience.
14. Understand your deserving person thoroughly before accepting him/her for a committed relationship.
When you are emotionally attracted towards a specific person and once your intuition guides you to work on your specific relationship with that specific person then understand that person to their soul level. You might encounter them in person or via online social media platforms.
The best way to understand a person to their soul level is by being together in person. When you meet in person, then you can read that specific person through your intuition and emotional intelligence, besides your logical intelligence. In another case scenario, If the person you feel attracted to is far away from you and you have known each other via social media platform, then whoever is legally able to visit in person should do so.
This will allow you to know each other very well. You have to know your specific person by being humble, being positive, and having love. When you invest your quality time and attention to understand your specific person, then you have to think positively about that person without being judgmental. The majority of relationships are unable to experience a honeymoon phase throughout their lifetime because they rush into a relationship without knowing each other well.
Never make your precious decision based on their physical appearances only. Rather, you have to know the inner traits or qualities of that specific person. In fact, a relationship is a confidential matter of concern, and you should know each other’s likes, dislikes, goals, religious beliefs, values, experiences, and purpose of the relationship. It will be your wise decision to spend some quality time together through dating to know each other thoroughly.
This is the most confidential phase where you have to know that specific person personally, professionally, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually. You must feel like a deserving person during the manifestation process, which will help you to radiate more positive vibes. You have to be very honest, transparent, and confident while sharing everything with your deserving person. When you represent your authentic self, then you can understand your specific person more effectively.
When you have a strong bond with your specific person and once you understand that specific person thoroughly, then you will be in a perfect situation to make a conscious wise decision regarding their acceptance in your relationship life. Your committed relationship can be happy and vibrant once you know each other in every way possible by being authentic and optimistic.
15. Follow your logical, emotional, and intuitive intelligence while dating a person with similar positive vibes.
This is the most sensitive and confidential step in the manifestation process, where you can determine your ideal partner by utilizing your logical, emotional, and intuitive intelligence wisely. The universe will allow you to encounter people who have similar positive vibes, but you need to be wise enough to make a life-altering decision.
When you find your desired qualities in a specific person and once you feel emotionally connected, then be focused on that specific person without engaging yourself to multiple people at once.
Your intuition is the best spiritual guide for manifesting your ideal partner. If you find yourself emotionally and intuitively connected with that specific person, then you must practice this final action step of the manifestation process.
Take a piece of paper and write down the traits or qualities of that specific person you are attracted to with clarity. Once you script all the traits or qualities on a piece of paper then ask yourself a few life-altering questions which can help to make a wise decision for their acceptance in your life as your life partner.
1. How do you feel emotionally and intuitively being with that person?
2. Do you think that person holds the core traits or qualities that you truly desire to manifest?
3. Can you imagine your committed relationship life with that specific person for the rest of your life?
4. What are the core traits in that specific person that really makes you feel you have found your ideal partner?
5. What is your compatibility level with that specific person on a scale of 1-10?
You have to answer these questions by being honest and following your 3 levels of intelligence which are your logical, emotional, and intuitive intelligence. You must practice this technique being in a very quiet location and enjoy every moment without any mental stress or emotional stress. Besides this, You have to practice meditation technique, nature alignment method, and follow your intuition for making your final decision for accepting that specific person for a committed relationship.
I would like to humbly request you all to practice this action-oriented approaches being disciplined by believing in yourself and trusting in the manifestation process of the Universe intelligence then you can manifest your ideal partner with ease.
By Dhiraj Kumar Raj
Ziglar Legacy Certified Trainer, Relationship Coach, Manifestation Coach, And Self-Published Author.