When it comes to love, nobody is perfect and no one can be perfect while manifesting the love of their life. Every experience is a learning experience and it propels us to the highway of self-fulfillment, freedom, and peace once we apply the lessons learned from those experiences whether it's a positive or negative experience.
We never commit mistakes intentionally while choosing the love of our life but we only know our mistakes when we are shattered into a million pieces after experiencing an emotionally devastating breakup or divorce. When we are in a committed relationship with someone we start to believe that our relationship life will always remain like a honeymoon phase for the lifetime. We start to ignore all the red flags seen during our intense level of romantic relationship phase because we get blinded by our feeling of joy and excitement.
Sometimes we fall in love with a person to bridge our emotional gap which cost us a huge price in the form of an emotional disaster sooner or later. Sometimes we lack the right level of awareness regarding the purpose of the relationship and we are in a relationship with a person who is not even close to our desired positive traits. When we are in desperate love with someone we never give more attention to the red flags seen during the early phase of our relationship. When we are brutally hurt or betrayed by someone then we start to realize that those red flags were the signs for letting go of that person but we waited for too long until that person damaged us from the core of our being in a very devastating way.
When we experience breakup or divorce then we feel like our life is over but we need to understand the fact that every negative experience is a part of our life, not the end of it. We have to heal our wounded self to discover our self-identity through certain spiritual approaches which can light the spark of hope and positive beliefs about love in our awareness with ease. Actually, emotional healing is not an overnight process rather it requires time, effort, willpower, right level of awareness and disciplined actions. We have to focus on our mental, emotional and physical well being during the healing process. We should not jump into a new relationship for bridging an emotional gap rather we have to focus on our healing process.
The majority of the people punish themselves for their past mistakes which is completely an immature way to deal with their emotional issues. Every negative experience in our relationship life is to shake us and to awake us for choosing our deserving person who can reflect our soul and allow us to be our authentic self. We should learn valuable lessons from those toxic relationship experiences and move on with a new level of awareness. The majority of the people live their life with regrets of their past mistakes and start to believe that there is no deserving person for them in this Universe. We start to belittle ourselves when we are going through an emotionally devastating experiences.
We are a conscious spiritual being in human experience and we have an ability to alter the quality of our relationship life at any phases of our life. We have to pierce the darkest clouds of our emotional storms during the healing phase and once we get healed emotionally then we can become whole again. We need to understand the Universal truth which says "whatever happens, it happens for a divine reason and to expand our awareness". There is always someone in the Universe who is Divinely meant and sent to be our soulmate. We can't go back and fix our past relationship issues but we can learn valuable lessons from those experiences to discover our destined version of a committed relationship.
Sometimes our toxic relationship is not working because there is a universe way to rescue us from an emotional vampires. We can realize that why our past relationship didn't work despite our best possible effort once we manifest the love of our life. In fact, a relationship life is a progressive journey where we need to learn, grow and evolve instead of living with our past mistakes. It will be our wise and mature decision once we refer a professional relationship coach to master over our emotional issues caused by our toxic relationship experiences. Finally, our mistakes are like a mirror which helps us to acquaint and manifest the love of our life.